Male Chastity Chat Meetings
There are a lot of male chastity chat rooms on the Internet that you can join in order to discuss your favorite fetish with other guys that are wearing the same devices. This is a great way of keeping in touch with the advancements of these devices and the guys that wear them. Wearing a chastity device and not having anyone to talk to about it can be quite difficult for some men involved in this lifestyle, but these chat rooms will definitely help you. You might even be able to find a group of guys that you can get together with in your local area.
For most men, the thought of having a male chastity chat is something that goes against their very nature. These guys think that wearing a device like this is meant to be a secret, but once they find another guy that is wearing a device just like theirs, it becomes an important aspect of the fetish to be able to discuss what they like about it and what they dislike about it. People with the same fetishes like to be able to talk to others that enjoy it as well, and this is no different with chastity devices.
I have found that joining in on a good male chastity chat is something that can be quite entertaining to say the least. There are a lot of men with this interest that can turn an innocent chat into something of a great story without much help except for the chastity device they are wearing. Now, you may be a bit shy when you first come into a chat room of this nature, and that is perfectly natural. I didn’t speak to anyone for at least a week until I was comfortable with what I was seeing.
Now, there are some male chastity chat aspects out there that you might want to stay away from. If you aren’t into the BDSM lifestyle, then that is probably not a chat that you want to get involved in. Most of the Mistresses and Masters that frequent those rooms really don’t care if you are new to wearing a chastity device or not, and will assume that you are willing to be controlled as soon as you enter the chat. Getting rude with them about it isn’t going to help matters, either, so keep that in mind before you say something you probably shouldn’t.
When it comes to a real male chastity chat about what you can expect from other devices on the market, then you need to find people that you are compatible with. You don’t just have to settle for chat rooms online, either. You can find plenty of local area men that are wearing these chastity devices and hold some kind of a group meeting if everyone is willing to give it a shot. I have a group that meets every week to discuss things about the chastity lifestyle and we get along perfectly well.
You might be able to start up a male chastity chat with someone in your local adult store if you happen to have one. This can be a bit challenging for a lot of men, though, especially the ones that are afraid of being seen walking into a store like that. You might put up a note on a bulletin board in the adult store that you are looking for fellow chastity device wearers to start up a group to discuss things about this fetish and see what kind of replies you get. That is what I did, and now have eight other guys in the group that feel the same way I do.
Whatever way you go about finding someone to engage in a male chastity chat with, you need to make sure that they are willing to accept you for who you are. Your partner might be a good place to start if you have one. Especially once you consider they are going to have to be staring at you and your device for as long as the two of you are together. If you don’t have a partner, then you might want to find other people that enjoy using chastity devices and meet with them.
Finding people that you can openly have a male chastity chat with is difficult for a lot of guys. Most of the men that are wearing a chastity device on a regular basis are doing so in secret. It’s not like you want everyone you work with to know that you have your cock locked up inside a small cage under your pants, after all. This is a delicate subject and not one that you can just walk up to a stranger and ask them about. Chances are they will tell you they have no idea what you are talking about.
You should also consider the options that your male chastity chat are going to be about. Some guys like to keep certain aspects of their fetish to themselves and they aren’t going to be willing to talk about them with anyone else. Other guys want to run their mouths the entire time about all the things they enjoy about wearing their devices, no matter how uncomfortable you might be with what they are saying. It takes all kinds to make the world go around, and you will find that out fairly quickly with chastity men.
Your male chastity chat options are not limited to just the aspect of wearing a chastity device, either. You can talk about anything you want to talk about as long as everyone else is in agreement with the subject. The best thing about these types of in person chats is that you are all wearing your devices at the same time. You don’t have to walk around naked to show them off, but you all know that hidden under those clothes is a device that is keeping you from getting an erection, and that is kind of exciting in its own right.
I have been managing a male chastity chat group for a few years now and have found that you will end up with a wide diversity of men that will come to your meetings. Even if it’s online in a chat room, there are still going to be many different kinds of people that enjoy items of this nature attending. Now, I won’t use names or anything, but one of our regular members is a tattoo artist that is heavily pierced and inked while another member is a financial guru of the more elite status.
If you think that having a male chastity chat with those two guys isn’t entertaining, you should see it for yourself. At first, it was a bit stressful as to how they would interact with each other, but now it is like they have been friends for decades. The tattoo artist even got the guru into a chair and gave him a small tattoo on his shoulder. I didn’t believe it, either, until I actually saw the tattoo with my own eyes. It was very tasteful and the guru seemed to like it very much.
You can see that having people come together to have a male chastity chat is all about familiarity at its core. People that enjoy the same things will congregate together and start to talk about what they feel. This is a natural extension of the human character and one that has started many different religions throughout history. Granted, we are discussing the advancements in metal cages to keep our cocks from becoming erect rather than the basic philosophy of the existence of a supreme being, but it can be just as intriguing for those men that are interested in learning more about chastity items.
You should never let a casual male chastity chat delve into the morbid sexual pleasures that one lone freak in the back might have. I’m not saying that you can’t have freakish fantasies about your device or anything, but if you think that it is going to upset anyone else in the chat room or the meeting, then you might want to keep it to yourself. Some guys are only interested in the aspect of what being chaste can give them and couldn’t care less about what you are shoving into your penis while you have it trapped in a cage.
Take the time to go over some rules if you are having live male chastity chat meetings in your area. You will also need to figure out if you want all of these people in your home with you. Some guys will pretend to be wearing a device simply to gain access to a home in order to scope it out. I’m not saying it will happen to everyone out there reading this, but I have had it happen a couple of times now and find it disturbing to meet people at my home for the first time.
I usually try to meet new people for our weekly male chastity chat in a public place with someone else from the group. In this way, we can all sit down and discuss what the meetings are about and what they can expect to find during them. We will go over basic information about the members, but never give out our real names just to be safe. I had one guy that was stalking me for six months after showing up to a meeting unannounced. It wouldn’t have been too bad except he was wearing a trench coat and a chastity device and nothing else.
I happen to live in a pretty open minded city these days, and we have taken our weekly male chastity chat out to lunches and various other attractions just to break up the monotony of meeting in my living room every week. This guy in the trench coat would usually follow along and end up flashing me at some point during the day when we were out in public. I didn’t care to see his chastity device and it finally took police intervention to get him to stop. I heard he is doing well in prison but misses his chastity cage.
Having guys get together for a male chastity chat isn’t all about the sexual pleasures that you can have with them. In fact, I would prefer to keep the sexual pleasures out of it since I am not really interested in what other guys do in the bedroom while wearing a chastity cage. I know that the men that I talk to every week feel the same way about it as I do, although there are a few times when it isn’t all that bad to discuss the sexual side of things, especially when something funny happens to one of us.
Now there are some men that might find it a bit odd to have a bunch of gown men having a male chastity chat, but it really isn’t all that weird. You and your friends will get together and discuss things of all natures and you never seem to think any of that is weird. So why would this type of chat be weird for some guys when talking about their chastity devices? Sometimes, you just have to give in and discuss the things that you enjoy experiencing with other people so that they can experience it with you.
Once you join in on your first male chastity chat, you will find that the people you are talking to are every day normal people just like you. Sure, they might have a fetish that requires them to lock their penises up in small cages, but they are normal people. You might even be surprised to find that the men you deal with on a regular basis are using these items as well. I found it quite strange that my boss wears one while at work, although he isn’t aware that I know about that. You just have to keep an open mind and realize that there are many unique individuals in the world that love different things, and wearing a chastity device is just another aspect of life.
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